Grhasta Council Registration

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General information

Name *

Sex *

Male

Female

Email *

Password *

At least 8 characters with a letter and a number. You will use it to log in and edit your details later.

Confirm password *

Telephone

Date of birth *

Time of birth

Without a time of birth we CANNOT look for compatibility. If you don't know it now, leave it empty and add it later.

Place of birth

Please include the country if you were not born in Hungary

Address

Height in cm

Country

Hungary

Outside Hungary

What community do you belong to?

The city or Nama-Hatta you belong to

Church status

Are you initiated?

Present spiritual standards

16 rounds & 4 principles

8 rounds & 3 principles

Less than 8 rounds & 3 principles

Siksa vows

Spiritual master's name

Counsellor's name

Urgency - how urgent is the need for association?

1 - not so interested

2 - slightly interested

3 - with some urgency

4 - urgent

Languages

Bodily needs

1. Lifestyle (house size, functions, contents, cleanliness etc)

1. How important is this to you?

2. Is the appearance of your partner important? How important? What is for you attractive? What would not be appealing? (e.g not be overweight, or well-groomed etc.)

2. How important is this to you?

3. Eating habits (individual needs, food allergies, sensitivities, fasts etc. Does the potential partner want to follow their partners austerities, or do they expect this from the other?)

3. How important is this to you?

4. Do you like cooking? Do you want to eat at home? Is it important that your partner know how to cook?

4. How important is this to you?

5. Health (are there any constant problems that cost money, or that require constant attention, or needs for bodily maintenance i.e swimming, sport etc.)

5. How important is this to you?

6. Possessions (saris, dhotis, car etc.)

6. How important is this to you?

7. Sex life (i.e sleeping in the same room or in separate rooms etc.)

7. How important is this to you?

Mental needs

1. Emotional relationship (i.e in childhood one didnt get enough love and has a need for it. Are you the type of person that likes to look after others, or to be looked after? Rasa, should the husband wife relationship be purely conjugal, or should there be aspects of service, friendship or parental moods?)

1. How important is this to you?

2. Intellectual needs (i.e reading time takes priority over everything, please take this into consideration etc.)

2. How important is this to you?

3. How and what do you like to talk about? Would you like your partner to be learned in a particular area? Do you like music and the arts? Would you like your partner to have the same interests?

3. How important is this to you?

4. Further education plans

4. How important is this to you?

5. School / college / university qualifications (intellectual ability, languages etc.)

5. How important is this to you?

Spiritual needs

1. Sadhana (i.e This is the most important thing for me, only when I have finished I can help you with your things.)

1. How important is this to you?

2. Service

2. How important is this to you?

3. Associating with devotees (i.e I woud like to invite guests once a week, or I have a need to be by myself sometimes. A few times a week I would like to spend time with my friends etc.)

3. How important is this to you?

4. Would you like your partner to be friends with your friends? (i.e a mataji who does not want to speak with her husbands friends, she just concentrates on her husband, she does not like being with other people)

4. How important is this to you?

5. Spiritual masters position in the relationship (i.e for every important question we ask him first etc.)

5. How important is this to you?

6. Would you like your partner to be a godbrother or godsister? Is it a problem if your partner is not initiated?

6. How important is this to you?

7. Relationship with the temple Deities (i.e I regularly serve the deities in my spare time etc.)

7. How important is this to you?

8. Where I want to live? (i.e where I have lived until now, in Hungary, abroad, it does not matter etc.)

8. How important is this to you?

9. India (i.e I want to go visit, this is not the most important thing in my life right now, I would like to go there regularly if possible, etc.)

9. How important is this to you?

Family life

1. Children (how many?, where and how should we raise them?)

1. How important is this to you?

2. Money (to some degree we would like to live a luxurious life, for me money is not important, I do not want to make an effort to get it etc.)

2. How important is this to you?

3. Duties at home (I like gardening, being active around the house etc, I would rather read in my spare time. We should divide the duties, I will happily help you in your tasks ie. washing up, changing the nappies etc.)

3. How important is this to you?

4. How much time we spend together (whenever we can we should get together and we should go everywhere together etc.)

4. How important is this to you?

5. Relationship with relatives (I have a need to weekly or monthly visit them etc)

5. How important is this to you?

Personal relationship

1. What are the qualities that I need to have for us to have a good relationship?

1. How important is this to you?

2. What are the qualities I would like my partner to have?

2. How important is this to you?

3. What is the most important thing I expect from marriage or association before marriage? (i.e emotional security, spiritual guidance, or would I like to look up to my husband, or for the relationship to be relaxed)

3. How important is this to you?

4. Surrendering to Krishna (what comes to mind from the perspective of the husband and the wife?)

4. How important is this to you?

5. Love (what does it mean to you? How does it manifest in a relationship?)

5. How important is this to you?

6. Dedication in a relationship (what does that mean to you?)

6. How important is this to you?

Leaving the grihasta ashram

1. Leaving the grhasta ashram: When?

1. How important is this to you?

2. Leaving the grhasta ashram: How?

2. How important is this to you?

Having space to oneself

1. Having space to oneself: How often?

1. How important is this to you?

2. Having space to oneself: How much?

2. How important is this to you?

Needs for karmi things

1. Needs for karmi things: Association

1. How important is this to you?

2. Needs for karmi things: Books

2. How important is this to you?

3. Needs for karmi things: Films

3. How important is this to you?

4. Needs for karmi things: Food

4. How important is this to you?

5. Needs for karmi things: Other things

5. How important is this to you?

Extra

1. Extra: What is the reason?

1. How important is this to you?

2. Extra: Why now?

2. How important is this to you?

3. Extra: Is there a particular person that you would like to associate with? If you are a full-time volunteer then would you can only associate with another volunteer or would you change your status if the relationship worked?)

3. How important is this to you?

4. Extra: Donating

4. How important is this to you?

5. Extra: Preaching (what does it mean to you?)

5. How important is this to you?

6. Extra: Taking part in the community (what does it mean to you?)

6. How important is this to you?

7. Extra: Age (partner should be older, younger? By how many years?)

7. How important is this to you?

8. Extra: Family background (Devotee parents or not, nature of parents etc.)

8. How important is this to you?